Beginner’s Guide For Sex Toys

Sex toys are the best thing since sliced bread for many reasons. There are so many ways to enjoy them alone, but there’s also the fun and sexy stimulation that you can share with your partner. You can also have intense, lust-worthy orgasms every day.

We know that sexual exploration and self-care are important. The benefits of sex toys are that they give us the opportunity to have a deeper relationship with our bodies and allow us to reap the mental and physical rewards.

Sex toys can help you achieve self-love and confidence as well as happy hormones and better relationships.

If you’re new to the world of sex toys and are ready to start with your first, we recommend you spend some time together! This is a short, humorous, and informative guide to beginner sex toys that will get you buzzing quickly.

Are you new to sex toys? Are you unsure whether or not to use a sextoy? Perhaps you are a partner and are curious about toys in the bedroom.

There are many reasons to use a wireless sex toys. But before we get into the details of each type of sex toy, and other FAQs, let’s remind you that sex toys can only be used as tools and don’t replace.

Some people may feel apprehensive about sex toys or even afraid of them. They might believe they will replace intimate human relationships. We will give you an example:

Imagine a car mechanic who is skilled at what they do. They are skilled at fixing cars, love what they do and can be trusted to complete any job. Even the most skilled mechanics need tools. Take that mechanic and give him a bunch of state-of-the-art tools and equipment. They’ll be able do the job faster and more efficiently.

This analogy shows that the skills of a car mechanic are crucial, and they are qualified to perform their job. Technology and tools are just an added bonus that improves the end result. Sex toys are the same.

Partnered play allows you to feel more intimate and close with another person. It gives us the warmth and interaction we as humans crave. These are not the things that sex toys offer. However, if they are paired together, fireworks can be expected in the bedroom.

Did you get it? That’s great! We’ve made a convincing argument for why sex toys work. Let’s now get down to the details!

Understanding the Different Types of Sex Toys

As diverse as the world, so are our sexual preferences, fantasies and fetishes. For example, one person might love a particular type of kiss on their inner leg, while another person may prefer a tender bite on their neck.

Because we are all so different, there are many sex toys that will suit our sexual needs.

We recommend trying different stimulations and sensations if you are a beginner in sex. Take a look at:

  • Dildos – Non-vibrating sex toys for internal stimulation
  • Clitoral Vibrators – sex toys to stimulate the clitoris
  • G Spot Vibrators sex toys that stimulate G-spot
  • Rabbit Vibrators – sex toys that stimulate both your clitoris as well as the G-spot simultaneously
  • Wand Vibrators – A less-targeted vibrator for external use on erogenous areas
  • Bullet Vibrators is a small sex toy that’s usually used for external stimulation
  • Oral Sex Simulation Toys – A sex toy that feels like receiving oral sex
  • Couples vibrators: A sex toy used for penetrative sex
  • Butt Plugs – A sex toy that is inserted into the anus in order to pleasure or prepare for anal sex
  • Anal beads are an anal sex toy which is slowly instilled and then removed for stimulation
  • Cockrings: A sex toy used by him for stronger and bigger erections
  • Prostate massagers: An anal sex toy that stimulates his prostate
  • Male Masturbators – A sex toy which mimics a sleeve, and increases male masturbation
  • Bondage Gear – sex toys that include BDSM in your playtime
  • Lubricants: There are many lubes that can be used to improve sex. They can be tasteless and odourless or they can be flavoured, warming or cooling.

What are the Different Materials used in Sex Toys

After you have found the sex toys that appeal to your senses, it is worth considering what kind of material they are made from.

These are the most commonly used materials in sex toys.

  • Jelly
  • Rubber
  • Silicone
  • Glass
  • Stainless Steel

Silicone is the most widely used sex toy. Silicone is porous so it is easy to clean. Most silicone sex toys are also body-safe.

Popular sex toys materials are glass and stainless steel. They are easy to clean and allow for some heat play.

For some male sex toys, TPR/TPE/TPE jelly and rubber are the most common. These sex toys are porous and should be washed with care.

Are you a solo or partnered user of sex toys?

Sex toys should be shared with anyone you wish! While we love to experiment and explore, we also believe in helping others do the best thing for themselves.

However, we can give you some reasons why using a single sextoy and using it with a partner are great ideas.

The Benefits of Sex Toy Solo

  • You can look at your body and find new areas that stimulate arousal.
  • You can seduce your self
  • You can adore your body
  • Feel more empowered
  • Higher levels of self-confidence can be achieved
  • Feel-good hormones can give you a surge of happiness
  • Short-term relief of menstrual pain is possible

The Benefits of Sex Toy Use with a Partner

  • You can live a more exciting sex life, with more variety
  • Explore new parts of your partner’s body
  • You can have bigger and more intense orgasms
  • It is possible to be more open-minded and have other sexual adventures.
  • It is possible to open up a greater channel of communication between you and your partner
  • Foreplay can be more fun
  • Enjoy longer sessions with your partner

What are your Sex Toys kept safe?

You may need to consider your living situation and other factors when deciding where to keep your sex toys. You can hide your sex toys if you live with friends or family.

An empty suitcase placed on a higher shelf of a closet.

  • In a empty tampon container
  • Inside your socks
  • Under your bed, in a bag or box

You can choose to keep your sex toys in your own home or with someone else. Some people even decorate their homes with their sex toys.

No matter where your sex toys are kept, it is important to clean them before and after each use. This will vary depending on the material of your toy.

Also, keep your toys in a soft pouch like a satin bag.

Is Lube necessary for your Sex Toys

Unless you are using an anal sextoy, lube is not necessary. However, it can make your sex toys more slippery and better.

Lube is a product for sexual wellness that helps reduce vaginal dryness and induces more pleasure in both partners.

It is possible to make a wet glide with a simple silicone or water-based lube.

You can now choose to use flavoured lube. This allows you to enjoy oral sex and foreplay while also allowing you to smell and taste your favorite scent.

You could also choose to use a cooling or warming lube. Warming lubes will warm the skin and produce an erotic sensation, while cooling lubes will have a slightly icy but stimulating effect.

Do Sex Toys Come in Discreet Packaging

Our sex toys come in discreet packaging at JOUJOU. We will ship your pleasure product in plain brown boxes if you choose to indulge.

All packages come with tracking and a signature is required for delivery to most countries. What does this mean for you? You won’t be spotted by Nancy signing your parcel and opening it!

Let’s get that confidence and let’s start to explore the more sexual side of sex toys. This is how to pick your first sex toys!

How to choose your first sex toy

Now comes the fun part! You now have the basics of sex toys for beginners. Now you can take a look at different types of sex toys and choose the one that is most appealing to you.

We’ve divided the sex toys into five categories to make it easier! Find your bliss, and get sexy!


The term vibrators is used to describe almost any sexy item that, well… vibrates. All people can use vibrators, regardless of gender and orientation. They’re a fun and easy way to stimulate your sweet spots and other erogenous areas. You’ll find your inner and outer stimulation or a little bit of magic that provides both, so you can discover your bliss.


Dildos can be used for sexy activities such as pegging, for those who aren’t keen to get into sex toys, for those who prefer to take it slow, for those who don’t like the idea of sex toys that vibes or for people who just want to learn. Although dildos can often have a lifelike phallic appearance they are an excellent starting sex toy.


Anal toys are ideal for people who want to try anal play, or who prefer to learn how to have anal sex at their own speed. Anal toys are a slow, but euphoric way to experience sexy sensations.

Male Toys

Male toys are made for men who want to improve their masturbation or have more fun with a partner. These toys are a great way to experience different stimulation, which is often better than the ones you’re used too. There’s something for everyone, from male masturbators to vibrating cock rings, anal play, and even anal play.


Bondage gear is a great way to spice up your bedroom. Bondage gear can be used in many ways. You could try it out for yourself and then move on to larger, more flavorful pieces. You never know where your pleasure might lead.

Our Product Recommendations


Original Japanese Massage Multi-Mode

This powerful, precise wand vibrator will make you feel like royalty. The Bodywand plug-in personal massager will give you a luxurious, smooth feel and silky silicone toy. You can get general stimulation, intense massages for your sore muscles, and/or clitoral stimulation.


Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

The Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo is the perfect way to find out what all the fuss about. This pleasure product is loved by many because it’s suitable for both penis and vulva owners. It can be used to massage your G or P-spots, and you will feel a sense of sexual bliss. It also comes with a sleek, sexy hinged box that is satin-lined. This Njoy sextoy is a luxury option.

New Sensations Novelties COLOURS Dual density 8″ Realistic Silicone Dildo

This 8-inch silicone dildo is a real life-like experience. It is made from platinum-grade silicone and has strong suction cups for solo play. This New Sensations Realistic Dildo is as simple as it gets.

Male Toys

Satisfyer Males One Textured Masturbator

The Satisfyer Men One-Textured Male Masturbator is designed to give you the ultimate pleasure. You can now have real penetrative sex while you level up your masturbation skills with this sleek and seductive male masturbator. You’ll enjoy more intimate solo masturbation sessions with your sexy partner.


Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition First Time Fantasy Kit

A kit designed for beginners will help you get started in all aspects of fetish playing! Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition First Time Fantasy Kit includes everything you need to have the most fun ever. The kit includes a feather tickler and a love mask. It also contains a rope whip, a rope whip, a rope whip, a rope whip, love dice, and a breathable ball gag. There are many options for fetish gear to choose from so that you can start slowly and move up to more exciting experiences as you feel ready.

Rabbit Vibrators

Fifty Shades Of Grey Greedy Girl G Spot Rabbit Vibrator

The Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girls G-Spot Rabbit vibrator is a beautiful pleasure product that’s full of orgasmic potential. The sweet treat is made from silky silicone and has 36 vibrational intensities and speeds. It is also waterproof and easy to transport. You can also enjoy intense solo or partnered play with two motors.

Cock Rings

Satisfyer Royal One Vibrating Silicone Penis Ring

The Satisfyer Royal One Vibrating Silicone Penis Ring is fit for a king. This ring can be worn over the shaft to increase your power and erections during solo or penetrative sex. Another perk: Another perk? You can use Satisfyer Connect to share all your erotic settings with your partner for a more sexy sex experience. This vibrating, cock ring is for those who only want the best.

Butt Plugs

Rocks off Petite Sensations Black Vibrating Anal Beads

The perfect product for those who enjoy anal play and newbies, Rocks Off Petite Sensations bubbles vibrating anal beads is a winner. It is easy to insert and remove and grows in size as you play. The handle is also firm, making it easier to use and more comfortable to touch. What is the best part about this beautiful pleasure product? You can use it as a regular plug, but without the vibrations. Or you could make it vibrate with joy, giving you all sorts of pulsating, vibrating bliss. This piece of art can also be worn throughout the day for those who are more skilled.

Clitoral Stimulation

Satisfyer Pro 2 Clitoral Stimulator

You don’t need to choose one, when you can have several. Satisfyer Pro 2 Clit Stimulator can give you multiple pleasures. It is waterproof and uses Air-Pulse Technology, which stimulates and suckers on your sweet spot. This is one the most popular clit stimulator toys available today. It is ideal for anyone who wants to express their sexuality.